Sunday, July 24, 2011

to my Femke



To my Femke, who is turning 4 tomorrow,

To my out of this world Femke, my beautiful 3 year old, for one more day.




I love that you believe in fairies and mermaids, and think that gnomes pretend to be pretend..... I love that you see see good in everything, and I wish I could bottle your belly laugh-if laughter is the best medicine you’d be making everyone better.

You and your sister and my best creations ever, your dad my most fabulous choice.
I hope you had fun at your party yesterday and will enjoy tomorrow too- I remember your birth, and the last 4 years like it was yesterday.







I love that a gift from the heart means as much or more than a gift of money to you, and you say the best thing are mummy cuddles in the morning.

I love how you combine non-combinable words that are just so you, and I live how you give me hairtiles in the shower every day (Hairstyle? Ponytail?). I am just sorry I am never brave enough to leave the house with them...

I love how last year all you wanted was your own wagon, so you could help daddy in the yard, and how you-when you pick your own clothes I hope we see nobody who knows I’m em&femme designs...

I love how you’re too scared to go to bed tonight as its the last night you’ll be falling asleep as a 3 year old (mummy, when I’ve turned 4-will I ever be 3 again?)

I love how your love for me is all consuming

I love you, and happy birthday to you.....






xx Mum


ps This will be waiting for you when you wake up in the morning





5 comments:

Designer Mumma said...

That is beautiful xx I am sure that Femke will love to read it when she is older. BTW that table tent is fabulous, I think that will be my next project xx

Happy Birthday Femme xx

allaboutbeingamummy.com said...

Happy Birthday Femke! Beautiful post Ilja. xx

Ilja said...

Thank you!!! xx

Lee-Anne said...

Ilja that was amazing to read!
My eldest turned 18 on thursday, and I would love to be able to say what I feel as eloquently as you did, (to Femke), to my Zac!
I hope you all had an awesome 4th birhday party!!

Nugbug Kids said...

love that little letter to her, you need to print it and scrapbook it!!! I felt that it true came from the heart and it was as though you were talking to me!! (although obviously knew you were!!! hehehe)